It would be very interesting
to note that doctors at Harvard Medical School point out that forgiving
those who have harmed you has a favorable impact on your physical and mental
health.
Nowhere is this truer than
in the area of forgiveness. The doctors a Harvard medical School summarize
the research in this area and conclude that forgiving those who have done
you wrong helps you more than it helps them.
Nursing a grudge and holding
it for dear life as well as resentment, and unforgiveness creates stress.
This in turn will raise your blood pressure and eventually can kill you.
Oh! But forgiving someone
lowers your blood pressure and heart rate, and also reduces the work load
of the heart.
A study also shows that those
with chronic back pain felt less pain and anxiety if they did meditation
of the Holy Hebrew Scriptures that concentrated on forgiveness.
When people forgive one another,
relationships become closer with physical and mental health benefits.
When women forgive their
spouses, according to research they become more creative and sweeter.
When men forgive their wives
and their fellow peers, they become more productive and generous at the
work place and around the house.
Their lives take a different
meaning and more than often any sicknesses or addictions are broken. Addictions
to substances for the most part is the result of unforgiveness in people's
lives.
Studies have shown that those
who deal with forgiveness issues in psychotherapy find greater resolution
than those who do not.
So, if you are holding a
resentment, or you are not forgiving someone for something they did to
you, you are basically holding yourself hostage to this situation.
You are basically doing yourself
more harm that the one you are holding responsible for your pain.
Here is a very good reason
why you should let that pain go now and move on with your life.
You have been utterly forgiven
by the Master Potter, yes the creator of the universes. So why not consider
letting go of your pain and receive His healing.